Recently, due to the excessive expansion of technology usage, especially smart phones technology, and the widely speaking through social media, it has a great effect on controlling human psychology and individuals' relationships with their internal and external society. thus will affect human psychology and language behavior, and of course, if the social environment is disrupted. this will have a negative effect on people psychology, language and culture. so, I would like to convey some Chinese experience in order to provide valuable suggestions and principals. These may help people to interact correctly with the surrounding environment in a positive way, and also help Arab students whom learning Chinese to understand well the culture of Chinese advising for the coming generations and the sources they rely on for providing advice to the public, the researcher found her goal in a recently published book called "advices and principals in human relations", which is considered the most extensive and famous book cause it deals with different psychological and social counseling methods provide learning  life experiences and interpersonal relationships.